But in the process we often questioned whether we were truly present for our children. A series of wake-up calls, both unfortunate and fortunate, forced us to reflect on our priorities. Following Teresa’s cancer diagnosis, we shifted into survival mode, juggling our careers, parenting, and health challenges that included additional cancer diagnoses in our families.

As our kids developed an interest in club sports, we faced a pivotal decision: should we invest the time and money needed to support their passions? Initially, we resisted, viewing the financial commitment, practices, games, and long weekends as overwhelming obligations. However, our children’s enthusiasm was persuasive, leading us to enroll them in club baseball, softball, basketball, wrestling, and football—a decision that transformed our lives and deepened our relationships with them.

The countless hours spent traveling, staying in hotels, and attending games opened our eyes to how disengaged we had become, distracted by work and health worries. We chose to unplug from distractions and connect with our kids genuinely. The investment we made in their sports was invaluable, fostering not only their growth but also our family bonds—an experience we now cherish as priceless.

Drawing from our backgrounds as former athletes, educators, and coaches, we realized we could leverage our experiences to help other student-athletes navigate their own journeys. This realization led to the creation of Momentum Academy, a mentorship program designed to empower young athletes. Through this program, we guide students in assessing their performance, cultivating a resilient mindset, and developing essential communication and leadership skills.

We understand how fast these formative years fly by and how crucial they are in shaping who our children become as adults. We know time is limited, and we have only one chance to make the most of it. Through Momentum Academy, we are committed to helping student-athletes maximize their potential while fostering a deeper connection with their parents, ensuring they are equipped to thrive in both sports and life.